AtoZ Blogging Challenge ‘ F ‘

This could be for, ‘ (F)amily or #frainsthename or (F)riends ‘ that are family. I’m thinking it’s all of the above…

Let’s go back to where it all started.

We’re Married/Sadie, Sadie My fav of all the wedding pics!!!

This is the video our youngest made for us for our 45th anniversary…

https://videos.files.wordpress.com/6xChRDt8/mom-and-dad45th-anniversary.mov

47 years later … Outer Banks

Christmas, 2024
The family picture 1993/94

Yes I know there’s 4 kids (we had 5), but our 2nd son, “Sean Patrick” is in heaven watching over us all. Making sure we get there with him and of course there’s always that one kid (our oldest) who has his own agenda and so I really don’t have much more to say about him except too much drama and disrespect !!! We’re the mom and dad and we don’t have to take that ever !!! That is why this is the most you’ll seen of him on my blog. So I’ve purposely let him go b/c not really that interested in what he’s doing…

One final pic of the family that I came from…Irish/Italian Catholic and these are just some of the cousins b/c some weren’t even born yet 😉 …

This was the first group and from the looks of how old I was it was probably 1964…I’m down in front on the left w/my 3 other sisters…Mary had her head turned and Beth (Liz) was in the green dress. I’m right next to her, kay was on the outside.

The Cousin’s

This one the later one in the early 70’s. I’m in the middle of(Red, White & Blue shirt) with pig tails. That was grandmama Fannie and Grandpapa Harry…She had 7 boys and 1 girl, my mom. Family is everything and we still get together and many of my cousins are like sisters to me…Love and Blessings to this bunch…We had a blast growing up at grandmama’s in the the summer and our family reunions were a blast ….

I need to add one more pic…They’re our best friends. They got married a week before us and we were neighbors (that’s how we met). Scott was in dental school and now our family dentist for the last 48 years and me and Cheryl had all our babies together !!! We are together forever !!!

Good Tuesday Morning AtoZ Challenger’s

Today I will be posting paintings from our Store …

He really is quite talented and can really paint anything he has a mind too. He also does contracted work, if anyone is interested in that. Just msg me if you’re interested. Blessings on your day …

Enjoy the paintings….

AtoZ Blogging Challenge ‘ C ‘

I chose the picture Jesus (C)Christ with the crown of thorns b/c that was the one he was working on during lent…I have a couple more that I like better than that one.

The husband is an artist, not his day job…B/C a starving artist is a real thing and we are way past that point. He told me to be famous when you are an artist, death usually has to happen first so I think I’m happy just the way things are.

I’m the writer of the family and he’s the artist. He sells commercial title insurance for his day job. We’ve been together going on 50 years, 47 of them married. It wasn’t til Covid happened that I realized what a huge talent he had with painting and drawing. When we were raising our family, when it came to art things for the kiddos during their school years that was his job. Writing of course was my strong suit. It worked out well.

I might as well throw in a couple of pictures he has been working on during this Lenten Season…Haven’t quite found the best venue for selling them on, that too is in the works.

I’ll put up a couple of his Masterpiece works, as he really is quite talented !!!

Painter’s Store

It you look in the middle painting, he put himself in as one of the attendees…He’s the one with his hands folded 🙂 …

This is one of my favorite compilations … It’s his band ‘Elan’ which means, “With Eagerness of Spirit…”

Trust me, these are just a few of his paintings. He’s really an amazing Artist….

AtoZ Blogging Challenge…

This morning woke up to half a house w/o electricity OMG !!! I had to find an outlet that worked for my coffee. Scarlett has to have her coffee first before anything. I found an outlet that worked and called right away on the electricity. It’s been all the stormy weather and rain that did it. Long story short, it’s fixed…Thank you so much I could get my Easter dinner done.

Scarlet’s story for today is my moment in time that will forever be etched in my heart. I always told my story to the kids that when my story was finished here on earth, I hope I would be met by Patrick Swayze and he would be dancing with me for the song, “Time of my Life.”

If you have followed my blog, then you know all about all of the professional dancer’s that are my boys. Joffrey Ballet, Milwaukee Ballet, Richmond Ballet yadayadayada… My 3rd son, Matthew got married to Hannah (both professional dancer’s). At his wedding he told me we were dancing the mother/son dance to, “A Simple Man” by Leonard Skinner. So the night before the wedding I went on line and listened to the song so I would have some idea of how the dance would go.

Below I’m just going to post the link of how the dance went. It was a memorable moment, one that I will never forget!!!!! Enjoy

Now that was the time of my life and a son who truly knows his mom and loves her to the moon. He is just the best dancer and totally confident and led me through the entire dance. I loved the ending the best. Thank you Matthew, you gave your mom a gift that I will always remember!!!!

Boys, Ballet & Babies …

Happy Good Friday to all. I’m a day late for the letter ‘B’… No worries. As I was laying in bed last night, I was trying to come up with a good story for this atoz post.

Today I’ll write about my boys, as the mother of 4 boys. Our 2 youngest boys (now grown men, husband’s and father’s) they have added so much joy to this family. Another one of my boys (our 2nd baby) is watching over his family from above…

Our 3rd and 4th son’s are retired professional ballet dancers!!! They both married ballerina’s that were also dancers on the same company …

Matthew Cavalier/Nutcracker
Melissa & Connor/Romeo & Juiliet

I’ll post more pics as I have so many great ones with their careers !!!

Melissa & Connor aka Romeo & Juliet
Matthew
Matthew #3 Son

They were such adorable little guys too ♥️♥️

Baby Connor’s Christening
Matthew & Connie/Joseph the Musical
A Magical Wedding /Matthew & Hannah ♥️♥️

Hannah injured her foot so sad b/c it was a career ending injury but she too was a beautiful dancer 💃🏻

I’ll add a few pics of their adorable kiddos !!

Ms. Ruby (Big Sis) & Sam #7/#8 Grandbaby’s ♥️♥️

Mr. Oliver #9 and counting …. 🐣♥️🐣♥️🐣

We are so blessed w/such a great family … Happy Easter everyone. Grandmama loves y’all to the moon!!!

Scarlett’s Stories for A through Z Blogging Challenge

Who knew April 1st would be here so fast. So much going on so I’m just going to let this challenge evolve. I have found out after 60 odd years in this life that sometimes it’s just better to wing things. Doesn’t mean you are not putting in 100 percent, just means you’ve learned to be more mindful with your content. Let it go and we’ll see. Hopefully I won’t disappoint and we’ll have some fun with it.

I’m going pull from my many books and journals of my writings. Easy little tidbits of Scarlett’s Wisdom that gets me through this thing called life…

Today we will start w/the Letter

Thoughts, Musings, Getting Through Life

Today’s writing is a quote I found many years ago. This quote below comes from Julian of Norwich, England 1342/1416

“All shall be well,

And all shall be well,

And all manner of things shall be

Well.

Below is a link to more of her writings…Well worth the read. Happy AtoZ Blogging…

https://julianofnorwich.org/pages/who-is-julian-of-norwich#:~:text=Julian%20of%20Norwich%20(1342%2Dc.1416)%20is,classics%20of%20the%20spiritual%20life.

Christmas After Sixty

Mz. Lizzie/1985

Mr. Matthew/1988

Mr. Connor/1992

And the family grows and grows and so does our love for all the life !!!!

Ms. Mariah & Ms. Olivia…Sister’s 2nd & 3rd Grandbaby’s

Mr. Sam & Ms. Ruby #7 &#8 Grandbaby/Big Sister & Little Brother

Merry Christmas to all and a very Happy New Year !!!!

Happy Song Lyric Sunday

Me and the husband just went out to get our daily Medicine Ball at Starbucks and that’s when he asked me what song I did for SLS. When I told him, “Honey” he said, “Oh know, go home and change that. Too hokey.” So that’s what I’m doing…

The prompt is death/dying/murder. I do think I’ve come up with a better song..

I think this is a better choice…I’ll get it right

Died in Your Arms Tonight

Oh I, I just died in your arms tonight
It must have been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
I keep lookin’ for somethin’ I can’t get
Broken hearts lie all around me
And I don’t see an easy way to get out of this
Her diary, it sits by the bedside table
The curtains are closed, the cats in the cradle
Who would’ve thought that a boy like me could come to this
Oh I, I just died in your arms tonight
It must’ve been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
Oh I, I just died in your arms tonight
It must’ve been some kind of kiss
I should’ve walked away
I should’ve walked away
Is there any just cause for feelin’ like this?
On the surface, I’m a name on a list
I try to be discreet, but then blow it again
I’ve lost and found, it’s my final mistake
She’s loving by proxy, no give and all take
‘Cause I’ve been thrilled to fantasy one too many times
Oh I, I just died in your arms tonight
It must’ve been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
Oh I, I just died in your arms tonight
It must’ve been some kind of kiss
I should’ve walked away
I should’ve walked away
It was a long hot night
She made it easy, she made it feel right
But now it’s over, the moment has gone
I followed my hands not my head, I know I was wrong
Oh I, I just died in your arms tonight
It must’ve been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
I, I just died in your arms tonight
It must’ve been some kind of kiss
I should’ve walked away
I should’ve walked away

I think this works much better…Now I need to go make the spaghetti for dinner..

Friday’s Words of Wisdom…

Here’s one of my favorite songs anytime of the year…

90 percent of your problems will go away if you…

  1. Stop reacting to everything – peace starts when you stop explaining yourself to people who don’t care to understand.
  2. Learn to walk away the first time respect is missing – you’ll save years of pain.
  3. Focus on what you can control and let go of what you can’t…That’s real freedom
  4. Spend less time online and more time building a real life…Clarity lives in silence, not screens.
  5. Say, “N O” w/o guilt. Protecting your energy is not selfish, it’s survival. And finally…
  6. Accept that not everyone will like you. The day you stop chasing approval is the day peace finds you…

I don’t know who needed to hear this today, but I always like things that give you some insight on being wise…Happy Friday, Blessings from Scarlett

Happy, Happy to all

Husband has been down w/Walking Pneumonia, spent Sunday morning in ER…He’s on the mend and I spent yesterday in the ER trying to

breathe. So yay I can say the holiday season has officially begun in my house !!!!. Will try to get back to all the holiday things. This Thanksgiving I’m thankful for having his and her puffer’s 😉 and breathing again. Oh by the by, this was all his fault.

We decorated the entire house in preparations for the entire family to come out for Thanksgiving. Ah yay, that didn’t happen. No one’s fault, just life. Probably worked out for the best, b/c tomorrow is a blizzard so no one would’ve made it back. Another day useless, another day… (Trivia Question, ” What movie is that quote from??? ” ) Answer in the comments…. Maybe a surprise for the first right answer 🙂 …

Love and blessings for having a nurse who’s a daughter and being totally capable of dealing with all the health issues…Mom was also a nurse RIP and taught me most of what I know, and giving me so much common sense…Miss you mom.

Hopefully I will have some yummy recipes to share and holiday things that are fun. I will tell you though, I’m not sure what ER visit it was, I cancelled Christmas…I was not in my happy place when I did that…

Blessings to all out there, hopefully things will improve…