Christmas After Sixty

Mz. Lizzie/1985

Mr. Matthew/1988

Mr. Connor/1992

And the family grows and grows and so does our love for all the life !!!!

Ms. Mariah & Ms. Olivia…Sister’s 2nd & 3rd Grandbaby’s

Mr. Sam & Ms. Ruby #7 &#8 Grandbaby/Big Sister & Little Brother

Merry Christmas to all and a very Happy New Year !!!!

It’s Christmastime, Y A Y

So thankful, grateful and blessed…We are both recovered from our sickness, the husband w/his walking pneumonia and God only knows what the horrible virus was that laid me up for a week w/a visit to the ER…I totally blame him for all of this b/c it’s his fault. He should keep himself healthy or at least have the good sense check into a hotel and keep his germs to himself 😉 ….. But I still love him and I’ll always take care of him b/c he’s my person … We take care of each other, always have, going on 50 years next year Woot Woot!!!!

Let’s bring Dean along for this one 😉 …

Yesterday got all the Christmas decorations put up so I guess I’m not canceling Christmas…

We have our movie list to watch and my Christmas TN planner is getting set up…Already making a schedule for my Chistmas baking, so I’m getting excited for that.

Above is my most amazing Christmas Planner ever. I add to it every year. I feel like it’s almost alive with so many memories…This one is my fav, but if you know me I don’t just have one…

My Christmas Joy Journal is the one I keep out on the kitchen counter for anyone to journal in and say they were here. It’s interesting to read things back from 2011…That one on the right is the old one and the Merry Christmas journal on the left is our new one…Also, I got that Lane Christmas box in 1978 when we went and bought my Hope Chest from Lane in Chicago…Great memories…It’s a bit chewed up but that just adds to all the life it has weathered :).

Told the husband to sell, liquidate, or whatever he has to do to get Scarlett’s Christmas fund up and running. New Boll & Branch Christmas Sheets. New Christmas Pajamas, a couple of trips over to the new casino right by my house. Movies and food and fun !!! Looking forward to it all. Happy Christmas and Merry Everything, be well and have a great Sunday. Stay warm and safe and dry..Avoid the ditches 😉 !!!

I’m going to start baking some of my very awesome recipes that I got when I attended Kendall College Christmas Baking programs. Stay tuned for those, b/c they are amazing…Really you’ll want that recipe in your Christmas stash !!! Blessings on this cold, snowy Sunday…

Friday’s Words of Wisdom…

Here’s one of my favorite songs anytime of the year…

90 percent of your problems will go away if you…

  1. Stop reacting to everything – peace starts when you stop explaining yourself to people who don’t care to understand.
  2. Learn to walk away the first time respect is missing – you’ll save years of pain.
  3. Focus on what you can control and let go of what you can’t…That’s real freedom
  4. Spend less time online and more time building a real life…Clarity lives in silence, not screens.
  5. Say, “N O” w/o guilt. Protecting your energy is not selfish, it’s survival. And finally…
  6. Accept that not everyone will like you. The day you stop chasing approval is the day peace finds you…

I don’t know who needed to hear this today, but I always like things that give you some insight on being wise…Happy Friday, Blessings from Scarlett

Happy, Happy to all

Husband has been down w/Walking Pneumonia, spent Sunday morning in ER…He’s on the mend and I spent yesterday in the ER trying to

breathe. So yay I can say the holiday season has officially begun in my house !!!!. Will try to get back to all the holiday things. This Thanksgiving I’m thankful for having his and her puffer’s 😉 and breathing again. Oh by the by, this was all his fault.

We decorated the entire house in preparations for the entire family to come out for Thanksgiving. Ah yay, that didn’t happen. No one’s fault, just life. Probably worked out for the best, b/c tomorrow is a blizzard so no one would’ve made it back. Another day useless, another day… (Trivia Question, ” What movie is that quote from??? ” ) Answer in the comments…. Maybe a surprise for the first right answer 🙂 …

Love and blessings for having a nurse who’s a daughter and being totally capable of dealing with all the health issues…Mom was also a nurse RIP and taught me most of what I know, and giving me so much common sense…Miss you mom.

Hopefully I will have some yummy recipes to share and holiday things that are fun. I will tell you though, I’m not sure what ER visit it was, I cancelled Christmas…I was not in my happy place when I did that…

Blessings to all out there, hopefully things will improve…

Dad, Dog’s & DaVinci

So much to write about here…Dad, The Artist…The Dad, The Suit, The Husband. Where do I start. It will be our 45th wedding anniversary this year. He’s still my best friend.

The Artist is a good place to start. It was when Covid started and they locked us all up, (rat bstrds) if you know what I mean 😉 . He had very little to keep himself busy so he started to draw/sketch/paint everything. Now mind you I had been with this guy since 1976 and never once did I see him do anything associated with the art or painting. The only thing I knew about him and art was that whenever the kid’s had a project at school that required art, he was the guy. Here’s a few of his paintings …

He really is very good. He told me back then he had always wanted to be an artist and I really think he could have. He said that the best career move for an artist is death. I think he’s right. I asked him why he decided on college instead and he told me his mother said no way, you go to college and get a job. Thank you, mother. Starving Artist is a real thing and I know I did not want that. Nor do I like the career move of death. So he just keeps painting and sketching…He really is very talented !!!

He also loves his dog’s and they sure do love him !!!

A quick story on one of his pictures. It was a picture of, “The Last Supper.” This was his own creation from different renditions that he studied. That’s how he picks out what he’s going to paint. It sort of just speaks to him. Here’s the painting of, “The Last Supper.”

He had to do it with a couple different canvases and put them side by side. There were a total of three separate canvases. When he put them all together he asked me what I thought. Being who I am and my attention to detail, I counted the Apostle’s and there were 13…I said to him, “Why are there 13 Apostle’s ?” He said,” b/c I made myself the thirteenth Apostle. I’m the guy with the Apostle resting his head on his shoulder 😉 … ” Clever I thought. I wonder if the nun’s would approve…Probably not 😉 .

I should at least put up a picture of him as a suit. That’s what he does to pay the bills or as he says it, he likes to eat and live indoors 😉 . So do I and he’s made a great life for us both…I love you husband <3 !!!

He’s a great guy…My friend for life !!!!!

AtoZ “C” Scarlet’s sees her Connie, Christmas & Cookies

I call him Connie…Really his name is Connor. I absolutely love, love, love his name. He was our 5th and I already had 3 boys so I was kind of hoping for a sister for my girl. I was one of 4 girls so I was hoping she could have a sister too. Who knew that when it gets later in life, the sister thing not that important…

When we found out I was having a 4th son, I was just happy everything was going fine with the PG. When we were throwing out names, the husband came up with Connor…OMG I was so overjoyed with that name, I just fell in love with my baby Connor…

It’s hard to write about Connor b/c he is just such a special person. He was our last, and it has been such a joy to be his mom and a privilege. He too became a performer. His first time on a stage was when he was 4 years old as, “John Thomas” for somebody’s high school play. After that it was dancing all the way…

Connor & his brother Matthew did everything together, so if Matthew danced Connor danced !!!!

I’m going to start with his dancing career, he was amazing on the stage…A real pro

This was before they were married. After watching their performance, the husband leaned over and said, “They are going to get married. They are totally in Love .” I had to agree and I couldn’t be happier to welcome sweet Melissa into our family…

The Courtship…

The Wedding…

I’m going to start with our famous Cookies that we bake at Christmas…Have so much fun as baking with the fam…My happy place.

We do our Christmas Baking downtown at Kendall College in Chicago. So much fun and keeps the mess out of my kitchen. They provide everything you need. Sooo much fun !!!!!!

Christmas…It certainly was memorable !!!!

I at least got the Christmas Picture/Card and Christmas Cookies baked before I fell and broke my arm….Husband managed to get the house decorated !!!

This post was a bit long and it might not be a smooth as I like, but the computer and loading has been a challenge for some reason…Blessing’s from Scarlet, hope you are enjoying, “Scarlet’s Stories !!”

Song Lyric Sunday

Here I sit w/my broken arm…But I still have my left hand, (I’m counting my blessings 😉 )…At least I can still blog w/o fear of breaking anything else … I guess I could fall out of my chair 😉 … Not !!!  

This song will always be one of my fav’s !!!!The best line of this song is, “When you kiss your little baby, you kiss the face of God.”it gives me chills…Merry Christmas to all and Blessings for your New Year <3 …

Merry Christmas…

It’s hard to believe Christmas is 3 days away…I still love this holiday for so many reasons !!! Great memories of Christmas Past !!!! They weren’t all perfect but they all were memorable.  Christmas is a very hopeful holiday. So much to look forward too. I love the songs, midnight mass, family & food. Friends are so important to the Celebration of Christmas.

I think I’ll add some music for this post. This is probably my favorite song at Christmas time…

Mary Did You Know

This year has been so great !!! We added to our family. Down below is our 3rd son, Matthew with his beautiful bride Mz. Hannah. This is a picture from the wedding. Connie and Missy (carrying our 8th grand baby in April) they’re 2nd in from the left. Mz. Valerie and Kirk are next to them. Maggie is laughing at something, (she is so adorable). Fernando is next to Connie. Lauren is next to Missy. 

We are just blessed to be included in this group of people. We had so much fun at the wedding and added to our memories with our, “Dancing Family”. Thank you all so much for being a part of our world.

Their wedding was absolutely stunning !!!! The venue, the stairs OMG (Can’t believe I forgot to get a picture on the stairs) right out of my movie “Gone With the Wind”. 

I was going to go to Alaska for our 45th (coming up next August) but I’m pretty sure I’m going to spend it out in Virginia. Such a beautiful place !!!!

I almost forgot one of the most amazing parts of this day…The gift the Bride & Groom got for the us. Matthew gave this to me at the start of the wedding. Well there are just no words for this present and it will be forever a memory imprinted on my heart. Thank you so much for this treasure Matthew & Hannah…

The rosary has a picture of us in the medal. It was my favorite wedding picture from our wedding. Thank you so much Hannah & Matthew for all the great memories of your Wedding !!!! I absolutely loved everything about being the mother of the groom. The Mother/Son dance was my moment. That was just the best and I’ll have that memory for a lifetime !!!! I must post the video again, I love watching this. Y’all made it so very special. I love you to the moon and am so grateful for you Hannah being a part of this family…Welcome

Happy New Year 2023

Happy New Year Blogger’s !!! I meant to do this last night, but I guess on purpose I waited until this morning b/c I’m going to be reinventing my blog this year. It’s going to be fun, so I hope you’ll be checking back regularly…

The Holiday’s were just the best this year. We had so much fun with the family. It really didn’t matter that there were miles between us. We were all together in such a good place.

Happy New Year to Everyone…

Christmas Baking @ Kendall College, Chicago, IL
Merry Christmas, 2022
Happy Christmas 2022

I’m wishing and hoping for the best New Year ever !!!! Let’s get this party started !!! Happy 2023 to all from Scarlet …. Today is the day.

Happy Christmas & Merry Everything

A Christmas Prayer

By Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)

Loving Father, 

Help us remember the birth of Jesus, 

that we may share in the song of the angels,

the gladness of the shepherds, 

and the worship of the wise men.

Close the door of hate

and open the door of love all over the world.

Let kindness come with every gift 

and good desires with every greeting. 

Deliver us from evil by the blessing

which Christ brings, 

and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

May the Christmas morning

make us happy to be Thy children, 

and the Christmas evening bring us to our beds 

with grateful thoughts,

forgiving and forgiven, 

for Jesus’ sake. 

Amen.