Happy Good Friday to all. I’m a day late for the letter ‘B’… No worries. As I was laying in bed last night, I was trying to come up with a good story for this atoz post.
Today I’ll write about my boys, as the mother of 4 boys. Our 2 youngest boys (now grown men, husband’s and father’s) they have added so much joy to this family. Another one of my boys (our 2nd baby) is watching over his family from above…
Our 3rd and 4th son’s are retired professional ballet dancers!!! They both married ballerina’s that were also dancers on the same company …
Matthew Cavalier/NutcrackerMelissa & Connor/Romeo & Juiliet
I’ll post more pics as I have so many great ones with their careers !!!
Melissa & Connor aka Romeo & JulietMatthewMatthew #3 Son
It has taken me a long time to get to this point to be able to put music to this very special birthday…I’m glad I can do this for him b/c this is his day that he changed the world forever and he’s earned that…A Mother never forgets.
Happy Birthday Sean Patrick. Today would’ve been your 42nd birthday. I remember our short time together every year. I know you see your family down here and are looking after us all. We will all be together again someday, and I will get to hold you and tell you how much you taught me from our short time together. After you were born, you changed our world forever. You were here on this earth for only a short time but you were here for exactly how long you were suppose to be. God took you with him and now you are perfect.
Sean Patrick, March 21, 1984…He didn’t know how short his life was. He only knew he lived a perfect life because all he knew was that he was loved by his mom & dad. Blessings today on your heavenly birthday … You will never be forgotten because your birthday changed the world forever. It changed our world for good. Your family will always love you.
I remember the day after we lost you and waking up. It was over and I felt very empty. I got out of bed and I remember going and looking out the window down at all the people. I was so sad. Everyone was just walking so fast, going no where I thought. Really what was so important. I wanted the world to stop because my world had. I wanted to cry and yell at everyone. Why is life still going on? Everything looked so normal, but it wasn’t for me. Life can be so cruel sometime. I was 24 years old but my innocence was gone. When your baby dies a part of your soul goes with him, yet part of him stays with you. I would never again be that young mother who walked into the hospital that Sunday night.
Well it was time to move on now. I remember wanting to go home and be with my baby Michael Jr. and your dad. The hospital chaplain came into my room and said that they would take care of you and I did not have to worry about it, but I said I did. You were our baby and we would take care of the arrangements. Michael told me not to worry about anything and that he would handle the funeral arrangements. The same priest who married us come out to the gravesite. It was a cold, gray rainy March day. We buried you with your Grandpapa Frain. I didn’t have a lot of people there because I was too sad. It is hard to see a small little box that you know your baby was in. It was hard burying you and letting go. Saying goodbye was very hard.
The Family, 1994
I became an awesome mom that day. I learned not to take anything for granted ever. I learned about unconditional love, really. My faith in God grew strong and I learned how to accept his will. Maybe not agree with it, but accept it and know that someday I would understand it all. I learned how fragile life is and to appreciate all that I have. I went on to have 3 more children. I just gave my life to God, and let him handle it. It worked out exactly how it was suppose too. Blessings to all my family, we have an angel watching over all of us…
Husband has been down w/Walking Pneumonia, spent Sunday morning in ER…He’s on the mend and I spent yesterday in the ER trying to
breathe. So yay I can say the holiday season has officially begun in my house !!!!. Will try to getback to all the holiday things. This Thanksgiving I’m thankful for having his and her puffer’s 😉 and breathing again.Oh bythe by, this was all his fault.
We decorated the entire house in preparations for the entire family to come out for Thanksgiving. Ah yay, that didn’t happen. No one’s fault, just life. Probably worked out for the best, b/c tomorrow is a blizzard so no one would’ve made it back. Another day useless, another day… (Trivia Question, ” What movie is that quote from??? ” ) Answer in the comments…. Maybe a surprise for the first right answer 🙂 …
Love and blessings for having a nurse who’s a daughter and being totally capable of dealing with all the health issues…Mom was also a nurse RIP and taught me most of what I know, and giving me so much common sense…Miss you mom.
Hopefully I will have some yummy recipes to share and holiday things that are fun. I will tell you though, I’m not sure what ER visit it was, I cancelled Christmas…I was not in my happy place when I did that…
Blessings to all out there, hopefully things will improve…
I just had to get this post up. The weather is absolutely beautius for Halloween in Chicago. Looking back on past Halloween’s, in my bank full of absolutely wonderful memories.
Thank you to all of you who made our lives so rich. Enjoy
If a tree falls in the forest and there is no one there to hear it fall, does it make any sound ????
After all these years I have asked myself this question over and over again and the answer is still a resounding, “NO.”
I always have some music to go along with my blog b/c music is everything, thank you mom for the gift of music. You might also want to give your mom a minute, b/c that’s how fast life comes at you…in a minute.
Mom’s are very special to the world…Blessings, world.Mom’s deserve a minute, no matter…
Today the prompt is a song based on reality…I use the song that comes to mind first. It’s a little game I play. Sort of like letting the universe guide me along my day. The Song Lyric Prompt comes from Mr. Jim, “A Song Based on Reality.” Hope that this falls into that category 🙂 …
The song I’m posting for today is, “Sniper” by the late great Mr. Harry Chapin. Gone too soon and an amazing song writer and story teller. We (Me & the husband) saw him in concert at Northwestern University back in the day when my the husband was a student there. I use to say it was the Harvard of the Midwest but who knew that wouldn’t be such a cool thing to say anymore. Still the campus is an amazing place in Evanston along Lake Michigan…
Northwestern University
Sorry I digress now back to the SLS promo for today. This was a mass shooting that took place on a college campus, University of Texas @Austin…
It’s sort of a dark story, but Harry’s the master at bringing stories to life w/his music. I’ll post the link below about the facts of this real life story that took place back in 1966. The shooter was a vet, Charles Whitman believed to have had a brain tumor that may have contributed to this awful tragedy.
She said not now, she said not now She said not now, she said not now
It is an early Monday morning The sun is becoming bright on the land No one is watching as he comes a walking Two bulky suitcases hang from his hands
He heads towards the tower that stands in the campus He goes through the door, he starts up the stairs The sound of his footsteps, the sound of his breathing The sound of the silence when no one was there
I didn’t really know him He was kind of strange Always sort of sat there He never seemed to change
He reached the catwalk, he put down his burden The four sided clock began to chime 7 a.m., the day is beginning So much to do and so little time
He looks at the city where no one had known him He looks at the sky where no one looks down He looks at his life and what it has shown him He looks for his shadow, it cannot be found
He was such a moody child Very hard to touch Even as a baby he never smiled too much No, no, no, no
You bug me, she said Your ugly, she said Please hug me, I said But she just sat there
With the same flat stare That she saves for me alone When I’m home, when I’m home Take me home
He laid out the rifles, he loaded the shotgun He stacked up the cartridges along the wall He knew he would need them for his conversation If it went as it he planned, then he might use them all
He said, “Listen you people I’ve got a question You won’t pay attention but I’ll ask anyhow I found a way that will get me an answer Been waiting to ask you ’till now, right now”
Am I? I am a lover whose never been kissed Am I? I am a fighter whose not made a fist Am I? If I’m alive then there’s so much I’ve missed How do I know I exist?
Are you listening to me? Are you listening to me? Am I?
The first words he spoke took the town by surprise One got Mrs. Gibbons above her right eye It blew her through the window, wedged her against the door Reality poured from her face, staining the floor
He was kind of creepy, sort of a dunce I met him at the corner bar I only dated the poor boy once That’s all, just once, that was all
Bill Whedon was questioned as he stepped from his car Tom Scott ran across the street but he never got that far The police were there in minutes, they set up barricades He spoke right on over them in a half-mile circle In a dumb struck city his pointed questions were sprayed
He knocked over Danny Tyson as he ran towards the noise Just about then the answers started coming, sweet, sweet joy Thudding in the clock face, whining off the walls Reaching up to where he sat there, answering calls
Thirty-seven people got his message so far Yes, he was reaching them right where they are
She said not now, she said not now She said not now, she said not now
They set up an assault team, they asked for volunteers They had to go and get him, that much was clear And the word spread about him on the radios and TV’s In appropriately sober tones they asked, “Who can it be?”
He was a very dull boy, very taciturn Not much of a joiner He did not want to learn No, no, no, no
They’re coming to get me, they don’t want to let me Stay in the bright light too long It’s getting on noon now, it’s goin’ to be soon now But oh, what a wonderful sound
The wires are all humming for me And I can hear them coming for me Soon they’ll be here but there’s nothing to fear Not any more though they’ve blasted the door
She said not now, she said not now
As the copter dropped the gas he shouted, ” Who cares ?” They could hear him laughing as they started up the stairs They stormed out on the catwalk, blinking at the sun With their final fusillade his answer had come
Am I? There is no way that you can hide me Am I? Though you have put your fire inside me Am I? You’ve given me my answer, can’t you see? I was, I am and now I will be, I will be
To end on a lighter note, back in the day before Harry’s untimely death, me and the husband (we were just dating) went to a concert at Northwestern University and my husband got up on the stage w/Harry and sang, “Taxi” one of his earlier hits. He sang the harmony which as I remember it was quite impressive. Also after the concert, Harry Chapin signed my program and kissed me on the cheek. I was over the moon. Great memories from my Bank of Happiness…
Have a great rest of the weekend and hope all had the best ever July 4th holiday…Along with, I hope y’all still have all your fingers 😉 … Back to the summer, Blessings to all.
I was listening to a lot of July 4th Music this weekend when the husband told me to listen to this song…
This is his painting of the one of the pictures from this song…Just absolutely love it…
Angel Flight/Some Gave All
Let’s all enjoy the rest of this Holiday weekend and remember, “If you are lucky enough to be an American Citizen, then your lucky enough !!!”….Blessings
I’ll start out with some music as it is SLS but I can’t find the prompt as it’s been awhile. I’m going to use one of my fav’s which come from what seems like a million years ago. Our youngest Connor (I call him Connie) who was a dancer now retired, married to a retired ballerina, Melissa (I call her Missy) and have 2 grand babies. He once danced to this song and I just fell in love with it. It’s performed by, The Killer’s …
I think I’ll just throw up one of the Husband’s (the artist’s) painting…I was looking for his white tiger but couldn’t find it.
The Tiger’s Come at Night
Too hot to go out and play so I’m just staying in and I thought I would put up a post. Summer has been so busy as of late that I really have not had much time to post.
Here are a couple of pics of them when they were dancing together…
Connor & Melissa Romeo &n JulietMelissa & Connor aka Romeo & JulietCostume PartyConnie & Missy’s Fam Ruby Mae & Sam
I’ve forgotten just how adorb they both are with such a beautiful family…Grandmama & Grandpapa love you to the moon !!!!Yes that is me when I was PG with him…Just thought I’d put that up for some laugh’s !!!
PG w/Connie/1992 He was my 5th !!! OMGMom & Dad/Missy (PG w/ Grandbaby #8) & Connor
Okay a couple more…and then I’ll move on to the other dancer in the family.
Melissa & Connor/Romeo & JuilietMelissa & Connor
One more 🙂 …
Romeo & Juliet/Mellissa & Connor
These pics you just knew they would end up together !!! So much love !!!
I can’t leave out my other dancer’s who are yes, married and have grand baby # 9 !!!! Unfortunately I don’t have any pics of Hannah dancing as she retired before I met her b/c of an injury, but I still have plenty of great pics !!!
Matthew & HannahRichmond Ballet at Wedding/Matthew & Hannah
I can’t ever pass up a reason to post this video again !!! This was my Dancing moment that I’ve truly lived for. Matthew know’s and he made it happen !!! It was the most amazing dance ever. I’ll never forget it as long as I live…
They gave us our 9th grand baby this past December…He’s so sweet and we just love him to the moon !!!!
It’s going to get busier, in a fun way !!! Going to Vegas !!!! Y A Y one of my favorite places to go. Can’t hardly wait and the heat doesn’t bother me at all. I’m either gambling, hanging at the spa or pool or shopping. That heat is what I call Hell Heat !!! But I don’t care. No worries I’ll be posting when we go !!!!
Was playing with my, “Common Place” Book. That’s where I write down everything that I love and matters to me and my life. It’s like a book full of a lot of insipiration for me. I just love it !!!
Happiness is….
Being around the people who matter
They honor your successes
and share in your losses
Laughter is common and
Fears are accepted
Love fills the room when
You are together
February 7, 2015
Well this turned into quite the post !!! Hope you enjoyed it. I better get up and walk around. Happy Week to all !!!
Started off the weekend with a great nights sleep, OMG !!! Always so grateful for that. Last night experienced some weather that I have never been in before. It was sooo cool. When we were driving home from dinner, my weather alarm went off which I wasn’t expecting at all. We live out incountryside, sort of. It has been very dry as of late and the farmer’s were out plowing up the fields to get them ready for planting. W/O warning the wind started blowing and the Clouds of dust just came out of nowhere !!! I got some really cool pics…Check it out.
Here’s a little bit of music to enjoy the dust storm 😉 …
I love the cross/Backyard Field across the streetLove it !!!! Sun CrossStorm winding downBlack out w/Cross from the sunTotal black outBlack out
It was a site, but I really enjoyed the cross from the sun…Never have I seen that before. I felt very blessed to experience that…
Then this morning we got all the planting done before Memorial Day !!! Woot, Woot, Woot. Really happy about that.
3 burning bushes/5 Red LiliesOur Japanese Maple5 Yellow Rose Bushes
That is a huge check off on our to do list!!!Now just getting ready for a road trip to see the new grand baby #9 Mr. Oliver out in Virginia and we will stop out to make sure the Atlantic Ocean is still there !!!!
Momma & Da to be…Hannah w/Grandbaby #9/Mr. OliverMatthew & HannahOliver’s Momma-to-be
Stay tuned b/c I have the Artist working again so I’m hoping for a Monday’s Masterpiece soon !!!
Mt. Who Knows …The Artist…
Enjoy the rest of your weekend…Thats’s all for now. Love Y’all and Blessings ..
I’ve decided to jump on today for no other reason than I’m bored. First of all, being bored is an okay thing to be !!! Whenever the kids would come by and say, “I’m bored,” I always replied with, “That’s not a bad thing at all.”
It really is a good thing, that means nothing crazy is happening either !!! Trust me, I’d rather be bored than experiencing crazy !!! In my life I have experienced so much crazy, that I’ll take bored any time…
Let’s see my life when crazy happened it was things like car accident/traumantic brain injury/hospitalization 2 months then physical therapy to walk and talk again (20 years old)…
February 7, 1981February 7, 1981February 7, 1981Car Accident
Being hospitalized in my 8th month and losing our Sean Patrick to a neurotube defect. That was crazy for about 6 days in the Labor & Delivery Floor at the hospital for everything to transpire. Then there was the aftermath of moving on from that with our life. Confronted w/the questions of how will I ever move on to grow our family. I was only 24 years old when that happened. I definitely prayed a lot about that. I finally got to the point where I just gave it to God and we ended up with 3 more babies…Thank you God for guiding me through that very sad time. We are blessed with 9 grandchildren!!!!
One of the latest crazy’s was when I fell and broke my arm, OMG the day before Christmas. Then it was how do I do A N Y T H I N G w/only one arm. Trust me, boring is sooooo much better !!!!!
Broken right Arm/WristBroken/ERDecember, 2023
When you’re bored, take a nap. Listen to music, call your mom if you lucky enough to still have her. Take a walk, bake a cake. So much to do with boredom. It’s really like a little gift of free time. Just give boredom another name. It’s really all in how you look at 🙂 … Give boring a chance.
Here’s another fun thing to do, watch some really great YouTube videos that remind you of greatness gone past. Here’s one I think you’ll like. Two of the best lines from this musical are, the first one “Forgive me all my trespasses, and take me to your glory,” and the next one is “To love another person, is to see the face of God !!!” This musical should be seen by everyone at some point in life.
Getting ready to batten down the hatches, the tornadoes and storms are a brewing. I even think Reed Timmer might be hanging around. If you don’t know who that is google him. He’s my guy 😉 !!!
Nothing gonna be boring tonight w/these storms !!!! Hang on, I think they put out a, “Small People’s Warning 😉 !!!” Below was another time it wasn’t boring for me at all, when the tornado decided my street would be a good place to touch down. It was Sunday Father’s Day, a few years ago !!!!