I am just going to put up Webster’s definition just in case, I’ll repeat myself again, just in case someone out there does not know the meaning of this word.  I’m pretty sure that everyone does, but you never know then do you ;).

FACT:   Something that truly exists or happens : something that has actual existence

So I’ll give you an example, just in case you don’t get the written definition…The Sun rises in the East and sets in the West every 24 hour cycle that makes up a day.  The earth is round. So now that we are on the same page, I will start my post on, “FACTS.”

One of the reasons that I started this blog is that I wanted to start writing and re-inventing myself.  I have gone through many changes over the last 2 years or a little less than that.  I don’t want to be accused of misrepresenting some of the FACTS on my blog.  This blog is my happy place.  I really just love to come here to write, read in the reader, talk with some of my blogging buddies, yadayadayada…

Time can be your friend or it can be your enemy.  Time heals all wounds or wounds all heals (that’s what the husband likes to say 😉 )  Over time I have found that perceptions change, but the FACTS always remain the same.  This is why I write.  I have been keeping a journal, a 10 year journal to be exact and have been recording my life with the, “FACTS OF THE DAY,” that I have coined them.  I also have pictures.  Many, many pictures that show my life.  As they say, “A picture is worth a thousand words !!!”   Then in another place I keep actual documents that I have been accumulating that also speaks to the FACTS of my life !!! 

I like to record history as anyone who knows me, that is what I do.  I think you have to preserve history and learn from it.  If you don’t learn from the past, what is that they say “You’ll be forced to repeat it,” I think is how the quote goes.  Well I choose to remember the past in a factual way so I have kept EVERYTHING from my past i.e. newspapers, LETTERS, pictures, DOCUMENTS, anything that has been important in shaping my life into how it looks now.  It is all archived by date, so it is very easy to go back and look at the events that have shaped my life.  I always wanted to be an archiver, just say’n.

Newspapers from 9/11, articles about me/my family. LETTERS from my kids, LETTERS from disgruntled girlfriend’s of a certain son.  Pictures of a 4o year + lifetime, oh and then DOCUMENTS, i.e. marriage licenses, birth certificates, law suits (yes that’s right law suits, a story for another day) oh yeah and then there’s another legal DOCUMENT not really sure what this one would be framed as but I have it and it’s all the proof I’ll need, if I ever need proof.  I won’t be lied about !!!

So this is a quote that really says it all for me


People sometimes take your kindness for a weakness and that is their misfortune.  So really this blog is for all those who troll it.  It is for the people who don’t have the courage to look me in the eye and take responsibility for what they have done to me and my family.  That’s okay because what goes around, comes around and it will ❤  Blessings ❤

Oh and I’m going to be changing up the blog a little bit, just to give it a different look.  A new widget here, a new color there.  So make sure you come back and check it out, that goes for you trolls too.  Do you really think I don’t know you are out there reading my blog.  Like I said, mistaking my kindness for a weakness, definitely your first mistake and a big one !!!!    


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